Is it normal that while I'm in a rs, sometimes I remember my past? Sometimes PG/R21 thoughts intrusively comes and I remember crushes/rs/physical rs. Basically some people who've made a huge impact in my life at some point. I do like my bf very much, we're still less than 1year together and I'm 100% sure I don't have feelings for the other guys but it bothers me that I still remember old memories it just suddenly comes. Makes me worried that sometimes he has these thoughts too and it really sucks. Sometimes the images I remember are R21 and I feel bad but it's like intrusive thoughts when I see something and it reminded me of it. Is this normal??? Do people also get this??? That's why I think the song "Glimpse of us" was damn popular BECAUSE IT IS RELATABLE. But I really don't feel anything for the other people already BUT how do I stop recalling dumb old memories? My bf is really great and I don't want these thoughts to be in my mind :(
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