My folks: stay in fully pd up landed home worth $3.5m, retired civil servants under the old bountiful pension scheme, always calling me to ask where's the best fd rates to park their cash. Me: struggling bank exec with husb doing ok + 2 kids living in small cramped condo. Combined annual income about 300k. Unable to afford a landed. Can't understand why my folks complain I don't give them allowance when they have plenty cash to spare while I am running on the hamster wheel everyday just to afford my kids tuition, maybe occasional holidays and I bring them along sometimes Thoughts? Anyone else in similar situation, how much do u give your folks?