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Honestly ah, I starting to feel people who struggle on dating apps are not necessarily lousy catches in real life one leh. Got quite a lot actually have stable jobs, personality okay, responsible, can talk normally face to face. In real life totally legit people. But once everything move online right, wah somehow all start to go wrong already. The funniest part is, also got people in real life honestly quite messy one. Chaotic, inconsistent, red flag here red flag there. But on dating apps? Wah damn power sia. Match until nonstop. So now I'm starting to feel dating apps reward a very specific patten more than actual long term match. Things like profile presentation, texting pattern, timing, pacing, “vibes”, knowing what to say at the correct moment… all these become super important. Not complaining. It is what it is. Apps and real life really feel like two different worlds sometimes. Sigh Anybody else notice this before or am I becoming a coffeeshop philosopher already lol.