• Any advice?
    #5985memeromanceadvice· 30min ago

    Hi freshman here, heard a lot about people having sex in GSRs. Ngl sounds quite hot cos can get a chance to experience like NUS or NTU. My bf and I deciding to do it but not like during the day cos it’s v inconsiderate and we wouldn’t want to disturb people. Anybody got experience to share, also no hate comments pls if u haven’t tried it urself!!

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  • Exhausted from you BS
    #5978rant· 31min ago

    Some exes will label your attempts at communication as guilt tripping and you having enough of their bulls**t as being paggro. Face it, you can’t even admit that you’re at fault for parts of our relationship. All you do is push the blame to me and when I try to clear my name suddenly I’m playing victim and tarnishing your name? Save it. If it hurts your ego to admit your faults then stay that way.

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  • Educated and unemployed feel bad for my kids
    #5995advicerant· 2h ago

    Some change in family situation and a toxic work environment made me quit my well paying job just before covid. ive been unemployed till now. My kids are in IHL. They feel bad asking me for money but no choice they need money. I sense them trying their best to stretch their pocket money i feel bad for them. But i lack the will or desire to work because i feel so down for all the shit in the past and also my age almost 50. I need to find the strength to hustle again because i cant bear seeing my children struggle. Sometimes i think in lieu of depression and anxieties God should just call me home now. Will solve our money problems, give kids the resources they need and me not waste time on earth. Do some good in death. I dont even hv energy to kill myself

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  • How do you deal with a bf with many exes?
    #5992advice· 2h ago

    This probably not a big deal but I been thinking about my bf’s past. I actually wish that he never told me about it. Sigh. He has bout 20+ exes (aka body count) over the years. He is 40 this year. There was one ex that last longest but in between they break and patch back several times. We have been together almost 2 years but I couldnt help and been thinking that im not going to be the last one for him. Feeling so insecure about this relationship and always sceptical whenever he says he is busy. Although he always assured to me that he has no time to find new gf, also tired to entertain any other girls. I cannot fully trust his words because when we first got together, he actually got a gf. He covered it so well that its until the girl text me then i know her existence. She uses his phone while he was asleep, found our chat knowing that im his “gf” too so eventually text me. Few months of two timings until the bubble burst then he break up with that girl and be with me. It took me a while to accept him back but deep inside i really mind and cant stop thinking about it. Also he last time got a fwb which they will have sxx on and off. He claims that they no longer in contact. How would i know if they still continue the situationship or not? I dont dare to check his phone because i really afraid i might see other girl text him. He changed his wallpaper to our pic to proof his “love” for me but wallpaper can be easily switch right? I ever noticed sometimes his wallpaper is plain thinking he might forgotten to change it back when he meets me. But he told me he was exploring his new phone, the wallpaper changed without him knowing. What an excuse right? (facepalm) It like being poisoned or cursed, I really like him tho and not planning to leave him. But the thinking of him not being faithful seriously affecting me. What should i do?

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  • Growing up years
    #5987· 2h ago

    I recall when I was a teenager around the age of 17, I did not go after brands for clothing. I come from a humble family and was thankful that I was fed and clothed well. My father was the only breadwinner and my mother took care of us. Feeling contented was the phrase I used to describe the thoughts I had then. However, I do remember one occasion where I had followed my school mates to do window shopping. They were after branded clothings and I didn’t have the means to buy. So they passed nasty remarks about me when I didn’t buy branded stuff like them. I knew my father had to work hard to provide for us. So I would not spend my pocket money carelessly. Till date, I still remember that I was bullied. The values they had were different from mine and we drifted and parted. Today, I would tell my children what bullying and intimidation are. Do not be afraid to speak up and distant from them. Do not be afraid to lose them as they do not have the right values in place.

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  • HDB bTO investment plan
    #5982· 2h ago

    Hi 27M here, just want to ask is it possible to find a girl to marry on paper in order to buy a bto, then each of us pay 50% of the bto, with no intimate r/s involved, basically me or the girl can bring any guy/girl home and the other party will not care as we are not in a real r/s, just being together on paper to buy a bto, then when the MOP is up we will sell the flat and split the proceeds 50-50, and then divorce. Would this be legal? Would it be realistic to be able to find a girl who be willing to hop into this 'investment' plan as well? As I cant stand living with my family and want to move out asap but dont qualify for bto as a single.

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