Redoing your work over and over again due to your autistic MANAGER giving you wrong, incomplete, inaccurate, mixed-up information and documents almost every day. Bad and vague communication. Dishonest. Access to your inbox and mark your email as read, making you miss out emails. His forgetfulness and lack of work experience also made him miss out jobs and his own emails. Documents are always lost in his office. The boss kept giving him chances with the expend of other colleagues to do our work all over again, searching for lost documents on his table, chasing for things he always missed out. His table is always filled with many soiled tissue papers with his mucus, exactly like what you see in a commercial or drama. Unhygienic and disgusting. His bad reputation, even part-timer is aware. He walks with his hands in front of his chest instead of swinging naturally by the side of your body. He walks like he's rushing for something (Kan Cheong). When he's going to the toilet and the boss is around, he would walk a big round, off the way to avoid being seen by the boss. He is so blur that he accidentally sent me his ChatGPT log. It contains questions like, he is stress with work, he had suicidal thoughts, he is honest and have to take over people's work because of their mistakes (LOL this fellow. It should be the other way around), he had sex with a prostitute and got caught by his wife etc... He vapes. He is a relative to the boss. This manager has been working here for almost 10 years. A toxic tomboy colleague always using offensive and aggressive tones on other people. Ordering people around to take documents. Lazy pig. She likes to do unnecessary extra work. Instead of spending time on the above, she should spend more time verifying her own work. She has no work experience yet she's acting like a boss. Coincidentally, both of them are always blowing their noses with the sound of mucus and slime. This is an unpleasant working environment. Most of the above were mentioned to the boss and she is aware most of it before I told her. That's why she is always scolding and shouting at them in front of everyone in the office. ''No system'' is a common word used by other OK colleagues to describe the condition here. Despite the on-going wrongs, they don't feel embarrassed or guilty at all, and people have do extra work because of their mistakes. There're less than 10 people in the office. You can feel the vibe in the office is very negative. Turnover rate here is extremely high. I've witnessed people who came to work for only 2 days, 2 weeks, 3, 6, 10 & 11 months. I've left the company long ago.

Just wanted to breathe my thoughts out. I am a zellenial working 2 jobs (one full time and one freelance, but sometimes feels like 2 full time if i commit more hours on the freelance) to pay off debt and trying to save up for... I don't know what. All I know is that my parents always told me, if I work hard I will get results. I can live the singaporean dream of paying off debt, affording a BTO and having kids. But that dreams feel impossible. I'm almost 30, my partner's PR application got denied, I feel stuck yet nowhere to run. I paid off half my debt (25k) in 6 months and while I am very proud of my achievement, i feel empty inside. I feel like I'm just a cog in the machine and that I am nothing. I can't afford holdiays and I can't even bear to go JB because the few hundred dollars for a weekend trip can be used to pay off debt or to buy my grandma a few shifts off her cleaning lady job. I feel useless. I can't even provide a small sum for my grandma to fully retire. My parents boast about how they gave most of their salary to my grandparents and they can still afford to pay for their BTO, raise kids, go holiday last time. This simple life seems out of reach to me. I want to just pay off my debt and give up on life. I am so tired. The only thing keeping me going is that after 6 months, I can drop one job and give my grandma the allowance to let her enjoy her retirement. I hope I can survive till then.

I am annoyed at how shallow conversations seem with this particular friend. When she rants I try to reply fully and give her solution, when I rant she just replies with smiley faces and emojis adding nothing to conversation. Like wtf chatting with ChatGPT gives me better responses than this nonsense friendship where you obviously just seeking attention but when I need a listening ear, absolutely cannot be bothered. Are friendships really this shallow nowadays???

As a woman who’s considered conventionally attractive, I get my fair share of unwanted attention & harassment. Mostly I’m used to it. But it really grinds my gears when I take Grab & I get a driver who keeps trying to make conversation, keep staring at me through the rearview mirror, or even ask personal questions like “Do u have a bf?”/ “Wow wear until so nice, go bf house ah?”/ “You staying here alone or with family?”/ “Wah go shopping with bf ah?” First of all, guan ni pi shi. Secondly, I am a paying customer. I am paying for a service- to drive me from Point A to Point B. I’m not here to engage in conversation with you or make small talk. This is not a KTV, not a bar & we are not on a date. If you ask a question & there’s no answer, plus I’m wearing my AirPods; that’s a pretty obvious sign I do not wanna talk to you. Also, I am a woman alone in the car with you. A male stranger. Which puts me in a vulnerable position. Leering at me through the rearview mirror, asking personal questions etc is really crossing the line, not to mention extremely unprofessional. This post is no doubt gonna trigger lots of ‘male PHV drivers. I don’t care. Stop watching so much corn & maybe you’ll stop being a disgusting creep who looks at every woman through those yellow perverted lens. Disgusting. You make $10/ hour, most of y'all are ugly & you think you got chance with me. Look in the mirror before you speak.

Not trying to rage bait, but recently caught up with my sgrean friends (I'm based overseas, hopefully permanently) and I realise I cannot stand the way Singaporeans in my circle think. Life is tough everywhere and I honestly think Singaporeans stay complacent and can't accept the consequences of nonchalance. A lot complain salary not high. I tried teaching them how to negotiate. Kept saying what, oh it won't work, it's not so easy... But wah, it worked when they actually try!! No thank you, no appreciation, and start saying "Yeah I deserve this.". Attitude flip like prata. Then comes envy and sloth. It's like we cannot appreciate when people are doing well and we need to find some justification why we're not doing as well. "Ah this person confirm nepo baby, must be parents help." or "I think I have mental illness that's why I struggling." Anything to wash the blame of themselves when they don't achieve certain things. Then in the grand scheme of things, everyone complains about Singapore. But when moving overseas is suggested with very viable options and examples of other Singaporeans moving, excuses, excuses, excuses. Don't complain when you don't wanna move or do anything to change your situation?? Wtf?? Then when it comes to doing business, all passive. Idea and product is there already, but all lazy and don't want to execute, but too cheap to pay someone else to do execution. How to be successful like this? I think I need new friends.

Hello people, i need your advices. I am a very insecure girl (26F) as i have a very skinny body and i have very flat boobs (below A cup). I have been with my bf for 11 years, and i found out that he has an account that follow all types of girls who post nudes photo, (showing huge full tits in sexy dressing or revealing private parts). My heart shattered when i found about his secret, as i felt really really insecure about myself and my body that i wasn’t really his type. I actually confronted him and cried in front of him like a little girl (as i am really sad deep in my heart). He decided to delete all the photos and unfollowed them but during all the years, this is actually not the first time that i found out he actually love looking at them. My heart is really tired, thoughts of never wanting get a relationship with any men just cross my mind.. please give me some advices. Do all men loves seeing nudes photo of sexy women