Hi there, would like to seek your advice. I am with my bf for close to 2 years. In the last 3 mths, he seems to be suggesting what I wear out and would even purchase clothes online for me to wear. These clothes he bought are all quite skimpy, like mini dresses n mini skirts n it gets more outrages with each purchase. I am ok to entertain him wearing that in his house if his parents are not in but he even wants me to wear out. The last 2 items he ordered are a mini demin shorts that actually shows my butt cheeks and a mini skirt that barely covers my butt. Find it getting out of hand and meeting his demands. I tried talking to him saying I am uncomfortable wearing such things out n I might zg. He just say it’s ok.. just be careful n I look great in them. Seems he enjoys showing me off but doesn’t care if I may accidentally expose myself. Any suggestions how I can better approach this? Is this a guy thing? Don’t ask me to break up with him as I love him. Thanks in advance
cuteduck·I think it’s nice in a way that he wants to show you off, shows that he is proud of you and how you look as well. However, you should sit him down to have a serious talk with him and not let him step over you with how he wants you to dress. At the end of the day, it’s your body and you have control over what you want to wear ultimately, not him. Let him know that while you guys are a couple, you still have your individual preferences and comfortability. If he loves you just the same, he should learn to respect your decisions despite being entitled to suggest to you what he wants you to wear. If he does not respect you and your decisions of clothing, then perhaps it’s something you should consider while moving forward in the relationship. If he loves you, he should prioritise your comfort and needs, not his wants. Be stern with him.
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