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Hi all, I'm a betrayed partner. I am writing this a guilt is really eating me up. After discovering my husband's affair, I reached out to the affair partner and asked her to stop pursuing him. At the time, I did not tell her that my husband had been begging me to stay and also involved with multiple people and that there could potentially be sexual health risks involved. Despite my request, the affair continued. A few months later, my husband ended things with her after having used her for several months and getting bored of her. After that, I informed her that he had not been faithful to her either and had been seeing other people during their involvement. From what I later heard, she was deeply hurt and devastated by this revelation that she was being cheated too. Am i the bad person for not telling her in the first instant.