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Sorry I just needed a place to rant about something that’s been pissing me off. My partner (A) has an ex (B) who is so toxic even till now. A and B had been together for a few years, but throughout the relationship, B was a constant red flag. B would lash out their emotions onto A and would stress A out till the point A had wanted to commit Su!c!de. Would constantly track A’s location through A’s phone and would forbid A to make friends with people of the opposite gender. When they broke up, B couldn’t accept it. B tried constantly to harass A and tried to get A to patch back. When A didn’t reply, B would started harassing me. I had been friends with A for a while and watched him deteriorate rapidly during the last year of their relationship. When they broke up, a friend and I constantly check on A as we were worried about A’s mental state. Slowly, A and I started having feelings for each other and got together after A had moved on and healed. B got to know and B went crazy. B couldn’t accept that A had moved on and started causing trouble for us. (B had initially congratulated us and stated she was so happy for us and hoped she could find someone just like how A had.) B had harassed us at our workplace, making calls to spread untrue lies and even accused A of cheating. (B had cheated in their relationship by going on a date with another person mind you). Things got so bad that A and I had to leave the workplace due to the nuisance and trouble B had caused. Workplace bullying became a result of the trouble and lies B had spread. B even went so far as to contacting A’s parents to get B to patch back their relationship. B would also texts me and tell me lies about A. Saying I would regret being with A. B even admitted to our mutual friend that they had caused trouble at our workplace on purpose as B had wanted me and A to break up. (I was healing from depression and anxiety during the time B caused nuisance.) Not gonna lie, the whole saga made my depression and anxiety worse and made me have thoughts of Su!c!de. B even admitted to our friend that they had even planned to come down to our workplace in person to spread more untrue crap. (Thank god we left before B went through with it.) We finally had enough and had blocked B from all contacts (phone, social media, etc). Around the same time we had also moved to another place as B knew where I stayed. (A was staying with me during our relationship). It’s be 3 years still the whole saga and A and I are still together, relationship strong as ever. But even till now, B is still being an ass. B had started posting on social media, calling A insults and spreading untrue lies about A. B claims to be “helping people who been through abusive relationships” when B was the emotional and mental abuser the entire time. The work really is full of weird people with terrible personalities.