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I just feel so happy that random people talk to me. Cos my friends are parents, married, are in a relationship, are looking for a partner, unavailable to me. Strangers make me happy :(. Sometimes I feel like Im a burden to try to ask my friends out cos they have their own things going on. I feel like I don't deserve a partner cos I'm afraid I'll be clingy and that I'm too ugly for anyone to wanna marry me. There are guys who literally still play mind games even at their thirties, with ghosting, "do you wanna marry her, no but she's not attractive, ..." . People are parents at this age, can you please quit this immaturity. Guys like them make me wanna either die or be independent forever. It's tiring to meet people who say that they want a serious rs, but are rather immature. Would you rather be with a good looking lady when you are much older or your mom who may not be attractive, when she's no longer around? Guys, would you treat a woman who could be a mom to a kid(like you were back then) at this shallow level? Please be kind, instead of sharing snarky, insensitive remarks or mean comments. Women are sensitive too, though may not be obv. Also, why have the options mindset, where you feel that you can have someone better while seeing someone? How can you stay committed or loyal to your wife with this mindset? Surely there will be someone more attractive, but they may not love you for all your flaws like the one who trusts you. They may want a marriage of convenience, is that really better than a woman who actually loves and chooses you no matter who flirts with her? Where are the committed men who are not bothered by superficial looks and actually choose character first? Are these men myths?