Had a pretty horrid experience today while on the MRT. I was taking my child to her play date today & there were a few supposedly local Chinese young men in the train carriage, one of whom cooed at my child in her pram, saying how cute she was (She is Eurasian as I married a Frenchman). However as we were alighting, I overheard in earshot “Baby so cute, but mom is SPG.”. I wld have turned back & confront him if not for the closing doors. I guess that was the hay that broke the camel’s back. Growing up I have always dated Caucasians & have to lived with the unfair judgement that I was an “SPG”. I was ridiculed for just wanting to date above my status in life? Is that so wrong? I don’t want my daughter to have to endure this too if she chooses to only exclusively date men who look like her father. I realise all this hate & vitriol stems mostly from the Chinese Patriarchal system with their fragile male egos who just lash out at us because we deem them less desirable than what others have to offer. While we have a degrading term like SPGs to describe women like me (who just want love), we don’t have a similar phrase for old Chinese loser men who have Vietnamese brides or their Vietnamese women for that matter too? Let’s face it, what the atypical local Singaporean male Chinese boy has to offer is rather dismal compared to Westerners (even including Western born Asians). All the more so that the majority of Westerners here are a cut above the rest from their home populations. In terms of accent, charisma, height, intelligence, personality and most importantly manliness, it is unfortunate that there is just too much disparity to overcome. Contrary to what “woke” feminists say, we want our men to take care & provide for us. We want to desire our men for being men, not emasculated Chinese Mama’s boys who are basically push overs & don’t even get me started on their bedroom grade level. There is a reason why SG is a efficient sterile city, not a city for love like Rome or New York or London. You cannot blame us Asian women for just having a justifiably preference for Westerners. If the reverse was true, that Western women desire Asian men, we would definitely cheer our Asian brothers on rather than lament on your desirability. So while you SG Chinese boys try and fix your own insecurities, can we just retire the term “SPG” since it’s not only demeaning but really nobody holds Sarong Parties anymore.
Lyssander· Courage and kindnessLady, you are just a self hating asian female… you deserve to be called a SPG. In your post you recognized you married a frenchmen just for the “status”. Your post reeks ignorance and racism. Remember, in the end of the day, you are asian, even if you want to erase your heritage, you are still asian.
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lousy-mask·Lol an SPG seething online over Asian men. Why am I not surprised. The insecurities are strong in this one.
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enthusiastic-parcel·What do you mean "date above my status". You're unnecessarily putting down all Asian people regardless of gender. You have to ask yourself why you are only attracted to white men, it's because of white patriarchy and the way their media reaches every corner of the planet. "city for love like Rome or New York or London". How does that explain the fact the majority of sex tourists and paedophiles are white men? If your husband was all these things you describe him to be "In terms of accent, charisma, height, intelligence, personality and most importantly manliness", why didn't he stay in France and find a partner there?
1361d ago · ·- bashful-sticks·
You're not white and you never will be. Westerners who aren't nutjobs look down upon people like you.
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NoThankYouFlatAsians·You’re cringe. Have fun raising the next Elliot Roger 🤪😝🤪😝 I bet you’re flatter than a whiteboard. A cup chest bitch with stinky pussy
1361d ago · ·- DisenchantedWithDiversity·
"Growing up I have always dated Caucasians & have to lived with the unfair judgement that I was an “SPG”. I was ridiculed for just wanting to date above my status in life? Is that so wrong?" says it all about your kind looking down at your own, including your own father and ancestors. What a disgusting cunt. Hope he cheats on you with some prostitute and spreads STD to you.
1360d ago · · - DisenchantedWithDiversity·
most importantly manliness We want to desire our men for being men I've seen too many SPG WMAFs with sons enjoying local SG benefits and then quietly heading towards the airport to run away from NS right before they turn 18. Manliness, my ass. You cunts and your cowardly husbands breed cowardly, defect Mama's boys. And if they do serve, they are always the ones crying, bitching and moaning about unfairness cos they grew up spoon fed with privilege and coddled at home. So, don't you dare say local men are not men! It's the "men" like your husbands who come for your smelly burnt pussy but pack up at first sight of things not working out or when the privilege runs out. Those are the kind of men that you SPGs glorify and dream of reproducing. And if you got daughters, they almost always turn out to be sluts like their mom.
1360d ago · · - silly-linen·
Lol ignore the people its not wrong to fetish for us white boys!!! Asian boys can cope harder!! Dont worry we gonna breed all the filthy asian genes out !! Asian girls belong to us white boys not small D asian boys 🤮
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