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Prof Ben, NUS brothers and sisters, hope all can give me some advice. I am married with 2 girls. My wifey and I are both professionals working at mid level jobs; are both super busy everyday. Every-time everyday after work my wifey comes home and slumps onto the sofa watching her Korean dramas. I have to cook and prepare dinner, get the kids school work checked, do the laundry, wash the dishes. Wash this and wash that and also clean the floor. Then she would go do her Korean face mask and then get ready tobed. Everyday this happens. When I ask her to help, she loses her temper saying she is tired from work. Weekends she would go out with her friends to shop or go holidays and I would bring kids to the library, science center, playgrounds or other activities. Many friends ask me to get a maid but I do not want. Please advise what I should do? I am so tired everyday… Is this everyone normal life like this? after married after kids after NUS?